Monday, June 16, 2008

Pomp and Circumstance

This past weekend, I attended two graduations – a middle school promotion ceremony and a large college commencement. I was quickly reminded of my graduation. Why? Because they’re all the same! Graduation is a wonderful tradition, but I have to say it’s gotten a little out of control. Here are a few ways I think we could improve our American custom.

5. Stop Sharing Advice
The big question at a graduation ceremony is always, “Who’s speaking?” A great speaker truly can liven up an event and provide our graduates with some nice nuggets of wisdom as they depart for their next adventure. If Bill Gates speaks at commencement, he’s a pretty successful guy, I’ll takes his advice to heart. But student speakers: I don’t care what your advice to the fellow grads is. You’re just as screwed as the kid sitting next to you the day after, when you enter the real world. Furthermore, what are your credentials, really? You’re popular and were chosen to speak? You can do calculus in your sleep? Either way, 9 times out of 10 your speech sounds canned and you haven’t got the public speaking chops or charisma to inspire me to follow any of the “helpful” tips you dole out. So, my advice: just don’t.

4. No Notable Quotables
Henry David Thoreau once said…Susan B. Anthony once said…Dr. King once said…Gandhi once said…yeah, well, as the Principal in Not Another Teen Movie said, “Shut your hole, Wang Chung!” This goes for students, faculty and guest speakers. Unless you have an insightful analysis to accompany the citation you’re making and how it relevantly applies to the day at hand, leave your fancy Google and Bartlett’s research skills at home. Using someone else’s words doesn’t make you sound any smarter. It makes you sound unoriginal.

3. Don’t Say My Name, B#$@%
Holy moly! It takes longer to say the names of all the graduates than it does to hold the rest of the ceremony. And for what? The work’s been done. The diploma they hand you isn’t really your diploma. You’re not accepting an award. And, if it’s college, you paid for it! You just dropped $120,000 on a fantastic education and all you get is to hear your name real aloud (hopefully pronounced somewhat correctly) and handed a piece of paper that says, “Pick up your diploma at Student Affairs. I think everyone would feel a lot better if we cut this name thing and skipped right to the fantastic after party.

2. Dress Appropriately
Maybe it’s just a California thing, but I was appalled by what people wore to these events. Granted, I was in a t-shirt and shorts (it’s California and we sat in 85 degree sun). So I’m not saying you need to wear formal attire. BUT, there were teenage girls in higher heels than their mothers. Congratulations, ladies! You’ve escaped the school dress code to look like a street walker. Jesum crow! And then, their mothers! Real Housewives of Beverly Hills style. Low-cut dresses. Heels. Bling. Setting a fine example for the daughters they can see shining in the reflections of their $200 designer sunglasses.

1. Hold Back The Parents

You’d swear mom and dad regressed in the 30 years since they turned their tassels. Parents bring signs. Noisemakers. Airhorns. They hoot. They holler. They wave, as if their kids have never seen them before or forgot they drove them to the event. You’d swear these parental units thought they were taking their kids to Little League or Soccer practice. And of course, it’s all capture for posterity on video tape. When does anyone really kick back and watch a graduation video? I don’t mean to sound like Debbie Downer, but the behavior of some parents is just remarkably offensive. So have fun and celebrate…but don’t be loud and rude. I thought we learned that back in kindergarten.

That all said, congratulations to all the graduates!


Sarah said...

Try $300 sunglasses! ;)

nicole said...

I definitely agree with these!

USpace said...

Good suggestions. Well done! CONGRATULATIONS to ALL Grads!

Hey young Grads
good show I say
you've done it now
you showed us how

You've had some good times
You've made some good friends
now some will go off
to do it again

So good luck in college
You can do it
Have a real wild time
but don't over do it

Try to make friends fast
many of the early ones
will be the ones
who last

Unless you love
to get up early
don't schedule your classes
way too early

And try to get to class
as much as you can
you'll be glad you did
then you'll deserve a cold can

But try not to party
too much before class
you'll more likely attend
and you won't be an ass

If you fail the easy Calc
don't take the harder one
just keep your eye on the ball
between all the fun

You'll be entering
sort of a fantasy land
of reading, writing, and thinking
with those who can lend a hand

So, do your best with grades
but at least finish the task
and soon another graduation
will come at last...

and HAVE FUN!!!


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